Which came first, bi-sexuality or living as a naturalist/"nudist?"

I ask, because of the way you formulated your response with "now."

It makes me curious of your age and your "coming to," whichever came first, because my father (age 72) had relations with men despite being married to my mother (age 71) since 1984. My father's male companions of LGBTQIA+ become close friends of my mother's irrespective of my father's dishonesty and the subsequent end of the my parents' marriage.

My parents were quite the friend of many, as my father also had children outside of the marriage whom my mother welcomed into the family and properly communicated with the other mothers. She had always held in her heart that those "romantically involved" with her husband were not guilty of betraying her, as opposed to her husband. Her vows were taken with her husband (my father), not them, and great people they all turned out to be!

I know them all by name.